Also asked as: “Can Muslims have a girlfriend or boyfriend?” · “Is halal dating allowed?”
What is avoided
Being alone together (khalwa), physical intimacy and relationships with no intention of marriage.
Getting to know someone for marriage
Meeting in public or with family, talking about values and goals, and involving a wali are common ways families support this. See marrying a non-Muslim.
Getting to know a spouse
Scholars allow a couple to meet with the intention of marriage, with family or a chaperone and no seclusion. Matrimonial events and apps are used for introductions.
The concerns with dating are being alone together, physical contact and relationships without intent to marry. Istikhara and family consultation are common steps.
Written and checked by
Hafiz Nasir Mehmood
Quran HafizIslamic researcher
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